Ask yourself this question, what do I hate about this person?
It it that they are wealthy and you perceive they have a great lifestyle?
Is it that they have achieved something you dared not to try?
Is it because they see the world in a different way to you?
The truth is that they are human beings. As my father once wisely said, "as long as you have a hole in your ass we are all the same".
So they have a great lifestyle and achieved something you didn't. If that's the case maybe they had an idea and worked really hard on it. You could do that to right?
So they look at the world in a different way, they have experienced a different existence to you so surely by talking to them, getting to know how they see things will expand your world view and make you wiser right?
But to do either of these you have to do work, you have to get on with it, make a difference, get over your negative emotions and make a difference to yourself before your can make a difference in the world around you. You need to be emotionally aware, mindful of how you feel and how you can change how you feel. You need to be aware of how the way you feel affects the space around you, the people around you and the very fabric of reality its self.
The first step to change from a hater to an achiever is to connect with your inner self, your inner consciousness. Only then can you connect with your emotions and feelings and eventually control them, and the wider world. Like many tasks you need a skill to achieve this and the skill is Meditation.
You will find many tracks on this site to help you meditate and also in our Amazon store. There is also the free meditation course (see page list at the top of this page).
Once you have been shown the gate to your feelings the garden beyond becomes available to you....